No-Nutella and the Movies

Today I faced the first "challenge" about my no-chocolate resolution for 2015, by being faced with substances that may or may not count as Chocolate. I decided to not consume the following, as they might become my "excuse food":

*Nutella *anything Cocoa related

#7 COMMUNITY

Surround yourself with people. The bigger the group, the more fun! Just invite or meet some friends you have or have not seen lately. Sharing experiences and memories and laughter will be the outcome. If you're crazy, invite random people and spend time in a totally new mixed group :-)

#8 MOVIES

If all else fails to make you feel good today, just end the day with a nice movie of your choice!

Lots of Love xoxo

Get Your Happy On! ..*6 Reasons to be happy*

The 1st of January 2015 didn't start the way I planned to: Waking up early, being productive as never before. Actually I woke up late, being tired from the night before, and barely able to motivate myself to get out of bed and do anything.
But hey I commited this year of my life to daily happiness without chocolate, so this kind of forced me to get up and go look for something to make me haaapppyyyy. And that's what I found during the day:

#1 A HOT CUP OF TEA/COFFEE
Nothing better than to start your day with tea or coffee...It makes me feel fresh and ready to start the day.

#2 GET STYLED
I don't know how far this may work for men, but for me as a woman it works pretty well. I felt so discouraged to follow my duties today, so I decided to pick out the most beautiful outfit I could find, get my hair and nails done and put festive (but not too festive) make up on. Once you feel pretty from the inside, it will make you feel a whole lot better on the inside.

#3 START
Start a new project or something you wanted to do in a long time. I know this sounds so easy, but is so hard to do...I mean: Where the heck does the motivation to get started hide itself? I cannot give you a better advice than to BE A TOUGH BITCH AND PROVE IT. Just stop your self-pity party and get that sweet ass up and just START. You know that once you start, it will a) be easy to continue b) will make you feel good!

#4 FORGET
Forget about shit of the past, forget about the bumpy road that lies in front of you this coming year or your life, forget the words "can't" and "don't" and "won't"and just think about awesome things in your life. Once you forget about what is hard, it won't control you anymore, but you will control it by all your optimism and it will be so much easier to fight it or live with it. Everyone has problems, but that shouldn't stop you from doing fun stuff and being happy.

#5 RESOLUTION
..not resolutionS. Don't plan a million things you want to accomplish this year, because you won't do them anyway. It will just make you feel bad, once you realise, that it's impossible to get everything on your list done. Just plan ONE thing for this year...one thing that will challenge you, but is possible to reach. Everyone knows, how it motivates mankind to have a goal. PS: My goal this year is to "Not touch chocolate, but instead find other ways to be happy (at least one reason a day)".

#6 TRUST GOD
Know that God loves you and wants the best for you. He has planned an awesome life for you, all you need to do, is to TRUST Him...and I mean seriously trust Him with all your heart. Once you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, just tell God to make your shoulders stronger and lead you towards your happiness. I mean, which parents wouldn't plan the best for their child, if they were almighty?

Lots of Love xoxo

Happy Year Without Chocolate

Craaaaaaazy! I haven't been posting since 2013! I don't know, why I didn't come back to my blog, though I was thinking about it quite some times. Okay, I had another blog about my travels, which kept me busy. But I'm back :-)

I decided to make 2015 my "Happy Year Without Chocolate" HYWC!
What does that mean? I break up with my chocolate-obsession (everytime I'm in bad mood: "Only Chcolate can help me now!") and start to look for other things, that make me HAPPY.
So basically I will post at least "one reason to be happy" each day, until there will be 365 reasons for happiness! I'm excited about this journey, because I already now imagine all the challenging days where my mood will be like

I hateeeeeeeeeeeee everyyyyythiiiiingggg and everrrryyyyyyyyonnnee...

and I'm curious what kind of happy thing I will find on these days. Join me on my journey :-)

Lots of Love xoxo

everywhere..

..is where i look for you. a crowded party - people dancing, drinking, laughing, talking, taking photos, having fun. i look around: so many potential lovers. maybe the love of my life, or at least my love of the summer.

but actually, the only person i would so much love to see at that moment and anytime is you, a friend.

i could have his wonderful kisses, but i just want your brotherly hugs.

i could have his compliment about how sexy every part of me looks, but i just want you telling me how i smell awesome.

i could have him telling me about our wonderful future with a house, garden, kids and pet, but i just want you to tell me we will do the best activity tommorow. and that could be even such a simple one like eating ice cream.

people want the world and success, diamonds and money. i just want to be friends with you, cause you are so special to me. 

Lots of Love xoxo

about the care of love & golden friendship

you're just so damn pretty and i hate it. it makes me even miss you more.
we still could be best mates today, but god, life and pride prevent us from being it.
maybe we never were real friends..although we had some endless moments of emotion. the kiss on the cheek after not hearing anything about one another for four month. crying over the hardships of life. gently touching - shoulders, back, arms, face.
still there always was something about you that made you seem a stranger.

but love does not care about circumstances or relationships, because love does not happen. love IS.

it just is there without being invited. it ca stay forever or leave as without us even noticing - it won't ask about staying or going.
i don't know where you're going and i don't know why, but all i know is that i miss you alot and i love you and i want to be your best friend and be a best friend to you.

Lots of Love xoxo

Men that we want

I want a man to lead me. Not to be my master, but to lovely show me the way when I get lost.
I want a strong man. Not to show me his muscles and how awesome he is, but to hold our kids and carry the groceries - a great father an husband.
I want a man to give me freedom. Not to leave me alone, not to safe me, but to stand by me, as I save myself.
I want a man to love women. Not to run after everyone he sees, but to worship his wife and his daughters.
I want a man to love the lord. Not only saying 'christian' on his papers, but to have god in his heart and his life. To be in a real relationship with him.
I want a man to talk to me. Not only about ''necessary things'', like when to attend the kids school events, but about how I feel and what he can do to change my day for the better.
I want a man to kiss me. Not to want my body all the time, but to kiss my mind.

I don't want the better guy. I want the guy, that makes me a better girl.

Lots of Love xoxo

That's subjective, Mr.

I bought a new dress for some very special occassions and a lot of people told me they don't like it. I still wore it, because I think it looks georgeous.
This situation made me ask:

Who sais what is beautiful and what is not?

Who are people around you to tell you if you can run around in this or that shirt or not? Who are people to tell you if what you said was stupid or not? Who are people to tell you you should weigh 58 kilos and not 70? How will the world change, if you will dress/look as others want you to? How will this change your life to the better? How can you ever live your inner self if you try to comfort others all the time?

Even if everyone except of you thinks your look/weigh/hair/nails/etc. are awful, you shouldn't change it. Why? Because YOU like it. And YOU matter. You is 

be -you - tiful

Don't you forget!

Lots of LOVE xoxo